I am soo tired of hearing that I am too young to be married yet alone actively ttc! If I wasn't ttc now then I wouldn't have known that I have an extremely small cervix and other fertility problems. Dh and I are financially stable. I am in a midwife program and will be receiving my certificate in 2 years to practice midwifery. He has a great steady income with very cheap insurance that covers him, baby-to-be, and me! Being ready for a family isn't about age, it's about where you are in life. We have out own place, steady incomes, and we know we're ready emotionally, physically, and most important financially. Everyone should just stop judging one another and focus on themselves!