I have this friend who I've known for about 6-7 years and we were best friends for 4 of those years, we had many fall outs and times when it was a big fall out and she and this guy would try and ruin my life by going past my house all the time calling me fat etc and posting photos of fat people online and tagging me or posting them on trees at school (when I was in school)

we made up and she got married last year and inboxed me to tell me that it was in a few weeks time, I joked and said I can be bridesmaid and she straight away said 'no that's already been decided and it's not you' she invited me to the wedding then uninvited me because apparently there was no space for me at the wedding due to having lots of people already going. I was pissed off I must admit because we've been friends for years so we fell out again for about 6 months while she was pregnant and then started talking earlier this year, only yesterday we were talking and discussing how we are like old ladies and love a good bargain and she was complaining about how she never has any time for anything with her hubby because her 2 kids, I said I could baby sit if I wasn't working and she said she wouldn't make me do that, so I said that it was fine because she's still like a best friend to me and she said 'tbh we've grown apart, I never asked to hang out with you because we have nothing in common anymore and it was awkward'

Would you say she's a good friend? As I'm quite hurt because when we do see eachother we do talk like old times and have a good cackle but she doesn't see that clearly.