My birth story starts, normal scheduled c section, and tubal. I'm 40 years old and my first and last child. Everyone was asking how  Ava was. No one asked how I was. My birth was a difficult one, she breeched at the last minute and crawfished into my chest at the last minute. She slowed my heart. But stole it at the same time, my doc said she was the most difficult c section he had in 15 years. My husband has been great but acts like I should be ok, I had really bad edema and I cannot breast feed. I feel horrible about myself and my judas of a body. And yet he only cares about our daughter. Our family's only ask about Ava. I want to know about YOU and your journey. How are you??? Nobody seems to care about me , but instead my kid. Mothers are just as important as the children they bear. And I want to make it a point to check on y'all. Make sure you're ok. Because no one has checked on me.