I've been having contractions (irregular) for over 3 weeks, super achy hips/back, been dilated 4cm and 80% effaced for over a week, lost mucus plug 2 weeks ago, and STILL no baby!!! And this is my second kid! Really thought I would have had him by now but I guess he really likes it in there! Have been feeling so defeated from it all and I'm just at the point of giving up anymore 😞 Doctors appointment is this coming Tuesday, so we will see of any further progression then. Praying he comes very very soon🙏🏼