Need help? ??

Question

I'm 12 weeks an 2 days pregnant my spouse just went down on me an he has chlamydia I was wondering if I'm okay he's being tested for it though am I okay I don't have it I was jus very horny but I have a docs appointment next week so am I okay need help

Answer

Ok,  curious...weren't you the one who not only posted about this particular std 2x before and prior to that a post about you having herpes as well?

I mean WOW girl...If you KNOW your man has an std, and you KNOW you are pregnant why don't you just use PROTECTION?! You can use dental damn for oral sex and obviously condoms for sex.

I've seen you ask people not to "judge you" but what do you honestly expect when you make 2 or more posts of several different stds?

Answer

You need to get treated again because yes you can pass it by giving/getting oral and even by kissing. Chlamydia can lay in the back of the throat. Two weeks may seem like a long wait but passing an std back and forth can hurt your baby and cause a miscarriage, anything you have your baby has a chance of contracting.

Answer

Well that doesn't really change anything. Sorry that you got raped, but if that happened months ago, and you found out you got herpes and chlamydia from that encounter, and passed it on to your fiancé, why does he STILL have it months later and you don't? It's a bacterial infection that takes 2 weeks to get rid of.

I'd question why he could possibly still have it, if you both took proper care of it when you found out about it, like you are stating you did. If you both were infected you should've been abstaining from ALL sexual acts till you both finished treatment and got rechecked with negative results.

Answer

Question is: why does he have it in the first place??? ?

Answer

If he has it you shouldn't be having sex with him epecially when you're pregnant. If you contract it you can pass it onto your baby which can lead to premature birth, pneumonia, and other infections in your baby.

Answer

First of all I was raped several months ago an I got the herpes an several other things from that person he's in trial now I gave it to my SO by accident cause the condom broke that was 2-3 month ago also how I got pregnant we both got treated but found out 2 weeks ago his wasn't cleared completely he's been medicated an they said it would clear up in a week so he probably doesn't have it no more but I was just asking cause it's late an I can't call my doctors but I'm healthy an so is he neither one of us cheat I just had a bad thing happen to me but I made sure I washed myself right after an he always brushes his teeth so idc if you judge me Ik I'm not a bad person I take my medicine for my herpes an my prenatal an I also go for a walk or slight tun an I eat healthy but if u girls think I'm full of STds plz ask me questions I don't mind answering an I probably have nothing to worry about I just thought I'd ask y'all just in case some one faceted similar problems

Need help? ??

The Top Baby Tracker App: Embrace New Beginnings with Tender Care

The Top Fertility Tracker App: Your Path to Achieving Pregnancy

The Top Pregnancy App: Nurturing Your Journey to Motherhood

The Top Period Tracker for Empowering Your Menstrual Health Journey