Does your man have a low sex drive?

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Way lower than mine, yeah. And it used to be a problem for us but we've worked through it quite a lot.

One thing I do is keep busy, and give myself lots of projects to do so I'm not always thinking about sex. And interestingly, I find he initiates more when I'm preoccupied. I like it.

He's expanded his comfort level quite a bit in regards to toys, so even if he doesn't feel up to sex he will sometimes help me out with those. I'm really happy he opened his mind up to that for me, because he wasn't comfortable with toys before and although I respected his boundaries  I really didn't understand it.

Basically communication has solved our problems in that area. I remember sobbing over it a few years ago, but we talked and we compromised and actually things work out better that I would have expected.

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Yes but it's cause he works all lot and I try not for his sex drive to be low and I just made him lay down and I get on top and do all the work ?