I need help 😔

So me and my boyfriend been together almost a year call him the silent lover because he's one of those lovers that doesn't say much only when it's outta no were!! Or he's like one of those ls that knows everything about me and I been like awwah baby you pay attention but he makes it seem like he don't if that makes since??!  Lmao but anyways we been having problems with communication and we are working on it basically getting him to talk more because I don't know really what he like sometimes now he's not really into the sex panties, and stuff he told me he doesn't really to much care for it I wanna be romantic and sexy for him but it's kinda hard I'm more of the lovey dovey type but he's like the lovey type in the house but it's weird cause he gets mad if I'm not walking next to him or offer to hold his hand🙄🙄🙄 so I be confuse lol now I'm a Virgo and he's a Aries if that explains a lot we act like our true signs but I just don't know what to do he does everything I ask no question about it ??!! He's very protective as well what should I do 😔😔😔