Young moms sometimes irritate me

I'm sorry but I just get so annoyed if you say one negative thing about kids or having kids and some young mother normally (20-37) thinks that there should never be anything negative said about kids. I could say something so basic as "I don't think it's right to leave your baby alone in the tub" or like the fact that is disagree with people "trying" to have tons of kids when they barely make enough money to support themselves. Sure life's not perfect and sometimes it's hard to get a great paying job but don't complain when you have like 5-6 kids and barely bring in enough for yourself. I'm not saying it makes someone a bad person but I don't think it's completely right, just because you "can" have 6 kids doesn't mean you can afford it. I just get annoyed when someone thinks they know "everything" just because they've had a kid or think their special just because they had a kid. It's honestly rude to rub it in someone's face if maybe they aren't able to have kids and it just makes women look bad. It's great if you can have kids but make sure you can help support your family, no kid wants to starve or not get adequate care because you didn't want to use birth control. I love kids, so don't get me wrong. It's just the overzealous moms who think they're better than everyone and act stuck up just because they had a kid. Just stay kind and humble