Why so rude?

Why are there so many girls on here that are so rude. I thought this app was to be able to ask questions when you're new to TTC and help each other out. Instead you're made to feel like an idiot. Yes you may have gotten your BFP quickly, but some of us are having to try harder than you. Please take it easy on us. Just because we don't know some things, does not mean that we are going to be incompetent mothers. Be nice.