So my baby is almost 11 weeks old and my husband and I haven't had sex since before she was born. My doctor said I was all healed about 3 weeks ago. I had to have an episiotomy, so I'm just a tad bit hesitant. Plus I haven't really wanted to. Is that normal? I mean we've had a lot going on. I just started work 2 weeks ago, and we are moving this weekend. I just feel bad for my husband. He's been, and is super patient with me and understands. Anyone else have a similar time or experience?