Cheating Partners

LADIES, feel like I need to make a PSA here. 
 
Cheating happens sometimes. It's horrible and it leaves you feeling like shit. He looked outside your relationship and found someone else. But, the choice is YOURS to make.
 
Do I stay or do I leave? For me, this comes down to one thing; is he going to do it again? For me, if the answer is "yes," I'm gone. If I really think he won't do it again, then the choice to stay is MINE and I can NOT torture him over it. We have to work together to BUILD back our relationship. 
 
Enough encouraging other women to abuse their partners. That is NOT ok. I'm so so so so so sorry you were hurt, but you have a choice to make and you need to make it with kindness.