Okay, I'm in need of some help. I HATE HATE HATE my bras. The underwire pokes, I feel like I pop out of them, they're just dumb,etc. so I'm looking to start switching them out. Problem is, I can't decide on what to get. There are so many styles and I'm hopeless when it comes to figuring out how to wear them. Like Aerie, for example, have lots and lots of lace that look like they're meant to be shirts instead of bras... Not with this tummy they won't be. The necks are high and the straps are either racer back or really frilly... 
So help me, where do you get your bralettes and how do you wear them?