So I told myself that I would never be that mom that kept her kids away from their father...

my husband and I are completely over and I'm calling an attorney Monday morning. my son is 3 years old and my husband works a lot but has 2 days off. I'm a SAHM and me staying home was something we agreed to when we first met so my husband has been the sole provider for a while. my husband seems to think that just because he works he shouldn't have to do anything else.

My husband never wants to spend time together as a family or just with our son. when he is a lone with our son he is constantly screaming and yelling at him or he is laying on the couch on his phone telling our son to go away or hold on he is watching something. my husband is almost 26 and I just feel like he isn't going to grow up or change. I've been with him for 11yrs and he has just made a bunch of empty promises.

whenever my husband and I get into an argument about the divorce or custody he always say something like... "your nothing without me, and I'll end the lease (we rent an apartment right now) so you guys won't have a place to live..meaning me and our son. He has even threatened to leave our son alone because I said I was going to my girlfriends house for a little.

it's also been over a year since he has helped take care of our son..no diaper changes,baths,reading books,potty training, brushing teeth..I've done it all and taught my son to ride his bike and he has never even seen him ride his bike

so at this point I just feel our son would be better off without him. I don't want my husband seeing my son when ever it's convenient for him and just popping in and out of his life.

am I wrong for this?