My dad passed away 3 years ago, it will be 4 on June 26. But my mom is already getting remarried. She said that her and my dad had a talk saying if one of them passes away first they want the other to move on, well my mom wants me to go to her bridal shower but I don't wanna go, I am going to the wedding tho. Is it wrong that I don't want to go to the bridal shower?