Uneven distribution!!!!

So this is really mainly just a rant post but I am SO tired of working an 8 hour shift , coming home, cleaning up the house, including dishes, cooking dinner, and then doing dishes again... all the while he works an 8 hour shift then sits down and watches tv.... my husband NEVER helps me around the house. He refuses to do dishes, says he hate doing dishes. But when I ask him to help clean the rest of the house, he says he will do it later- and it never gets done. I love my husband dearly but something has to give. I am on the verge of just not doing a damn thing like him, getting rid of dishes, eating on paper plates for the rest of our lives, and just hiring a damn maid to clean the house. So fed up with him not doing a damn thing to help me. 😤😤😭😭

Any advice ladies?

And no, he doesn't help with dinner either. Either I cook a full, good meal, all by myself or he gets himself a damn hot pocket for dinner.

I literally just asked if he has seen the sponge for dishes his reply "i dunno. Is it not where it's usually supposed to be? I don't even know what color it is." All while playing on the darn xbox- never skipping beat. Not even pausing to help me find it.