Age difference…😒

Okay so I met this guy and right off the bat he told me how old he is. He is 19 and I am 16. We really like each other and he's an amazing guy. And I know your gonna say that because I'm 16 I'm immature and don't really know but I've had a really rough life so I don't let myself fall for people.  Everyone tells me I should be 18 cause if the way I act. So now we want my dad to meet him before we start dating just so we know he likes him since my dads opinion means everything to me. But I know he will never approve because of his age. I wanted to lie about his age just until they've met and get along then I would tell him but the guy doesn't want to do that. He really doesn't know what he's getting into with my dad. I don't know what to do. 
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Re

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If you really like this guy, tell your dad the truth and if he doesn't agree wait until you're 18. If he's worth it, he'll wait for you, and you him.

Ki

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i wouldn't lie, maybe tell your dad before he comes over and explain how you feel and let him know that his age doesn't matter!

Em

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Your parents should always be looking out for your best interests. And if you really want your dad to approve, it's always best to go in with a truthful and open approach. Your dad may or may not approve of this guy, but you have to ask yourself this: in the long run, is it more important to you to have an honest relationship with your dad, or some guy who may not always be in your life? You may not want to hear it, but this guy may not be forever. You may think he is now, but this is only a fraction of your life. So go in honest with your dad, but if he disapproves, it's not the end of the world and isn't worth sneaking around. I'd rather have my parent's trust than a guy who is most likely temporary.

As

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Bruh, it's only 3 years. I would hate if my dad would reject me in this situation. Hopefully he lets you be in a relationship with him!!❤️❤️