Fathers rude best friend

It's been bugging me for a matter of months well my husbands friend moved in with us and things seemed okay but now everything gone down hill from there he's lazy eats alotof our food trashes the house I have a 1 year old he's been sick for the past five days so he crys and pouts a lot his friend keeps raising his voice saying why you crying you have nothing to cry about stop being a winey little douche what schould I do 😔