😩😩😩😩 My husband calls my dad Everytime there's an issue in our marriage. He doesn't call to "tattle," but to get my dad's advice. My dad is really loving and gives straightforward cut the shit advice, but it's so embarrassing for me! The other thing is, I have NO IDEA why he calls my dad, completely uninvited. How do I fix this? I'm such a private person but it's like my husband NEEDS a 3rd party. He prefers my dad over counseling, apparently.