Why hasn't he finished yet?

Question

My bf has yet to ejaculate. I've done oral on him multiple times and nothing. I'm not bad at it, there have been times he swears he finished but didn't cum. We've had sex before too, and yet he still doesn't finish. We went at it for an hour and nothing.

Am I doing something wrong?

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A bf of mine (years ago now) suffered from anxiety about cumming. His last gf had fallen pregnant and had decided to have an abortion, he didn't want her to and it really cut him up. He used to jack off several times a day to help him avoid cumming during sex because of his anxiety, despite me trying multiple birth control options to help him feel more comfortable.

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There's a small possibility he is holding in his come, which they can do. You'll need to ask him

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My SO struggled with porn for a year, so when we had sex the first six times or so, even bjs, he just couldn't cum...
He did get better.

After our third time, he told me what was the issue (cause I felt like I was doing it wrong), and we promised each other to never look at porn again.

1 1/2 years and strong (and he definitely doesn't have an issue cumming anymore. ^^)

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Thanks girls.

He may have anxiety, but on days where we see each other he doesn't masturbate. I'm also on the implant and we're using condoms so he's not as worried as he would be if we were unprotected. Also, we were each other's first times, so could that affect it?

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You should just ask him it might a really personal reason, I don't know a lot on this topic but I do know some medicines can effect guys sexually. I don't know if they make it so they can't cum. But like I said I'm not that educated on the topic

Why hasn't he finished yet?

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