So I wanna plan my baby shower soon but my husbands gma doesn't want me to she doesn't think I should and I think that's sweet of her but I'm really picky and if things aren't perfect I don't wanna freak out on her and/or other people you know? Is it ok to plan my own baby shower ?? I mean when I had my son I never had a whole baby shower or anything so I kinda really wanna plan my own !