Lesbian/Bi ?

Question

I don't think I understand. Well, I do. It is people of the same sex who love eachother. But is it the exact same as a straight relationship? I just could never see myself loving a girl in the same way I love my boy. I feel the need to have someone bigger and stronger then me, that is masculine and I know will protect me. Is it a learned behavior, or are people born with their sexual orientation? Wouldn't a lesbian couple feel like their is something missing? I suppose not. But I can't seem to rap my head around it, and I want to understand.

I don't mean any disrespect.

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Everyone needs different things in relationships. Your need for someone bigger and stronger may not be a need for someone else. Everyone loves different and no two relationships are the same.

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Some people believe that you are born with your sexual orientation, but I personally don't believe that is the case. I think that people gain their own definition of their sexual orientation from the environment that they grew up in. But currently Im briefly studying whether or not homosexuality is coded into our DNA. And unless you are actually lesbian, gay or transgender I don't think you will ever fully understand how it is. I do agree though, for me it's sometimes hard for me to understand. I can understand how guys can be gay, and how girls can be lesbian, but I still can't fully wrap my head around the idea of being a lesbian. Like I have my best friends whom I love and act like a 'lesbian lover' with, but actually understanding it is something I struggle with.

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It's the exact same feeling as a different sex relationship! Although you want someone more masculine, not everyone wants that. When I want to be with a girl, I want to protect her and take care of her, which is the more traditionally "masculine" role.  Some girls look for girls who are more traditionally masculine. And some girls share the masculine and feminine traits equally in their relationships.

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As a pansexual girl meaning gender doesnt mean anything to me. I have dated plenty of girls who were bigger than me and could protect me. And ive dated plenty of girls where i played that role. Doesnt matter what gender the person is someone can protect you. I know girls who are straight that could kick a guys ass no problem.

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