So how does everybody get through weddings, bbq's, christenings, holiday gatherings etc. with the constant questions about getting pregnant?  I know that is exciting to ask but it hurts me and my husband every time!  It makes it harder for me to get out to these festivities with the thought of someone else asking us (yet again) when we are getting pregnant.  We are married for 5 years now.  Together for 11 and have been trying to get pregnant for 3 years.  We are both 30 now and want it so badly. It grows harder and harder to answer these questions with "hopefully soon" or "ya never know!"