Not completely mommy related: does anyone else have Blue Anthem cross? I have it trough my husbands employer but im so stressed out about it! We havent met our deductable and ive had to run to the er multiple times enough to rack up the amount of money insurance didnt cover which is close to 14k! Debt collectors are after me and ive been paying  problem is im paying them and not my deductable! It sucks because im wasting money on those bills instead of paying the one bill that would cover eveything IF i payed it! Im so stressed out i cant even have a good day because of all the negative things i see happening. :(