So I been talking to this guy for a few months now and it's been cool and all, we had sex a few times but when we do it always in the dark and he don't like to touch me or nothing and he is tall and skinny and I am short and not fat I have a tummy, ( genetics) I tried the gym but idk I gave up too much money I get discouraged easily... Maybe it's me or should I go back to the gym