Pleasing your partner sexually.

Aimee
Okay so me and my partner are having some problems in the bedroom and I wanted to see if anyone else if experiencing the same? 
We are having less sex which is odd on his part cause he's normally really horny and even will say something if we haven't had sex for like a day. 
Now I will give him a handy when he wakes up (cause you know please yo man 💁🏼) and it's never reciprocated. 
It's staying to feel a little unfair. Cause when we do have sex he will finish early which is so frustrating. I don't get mad or anything cause I know it's not his fault but once he finishes he just lays down to rest. Meanwhile I have the equivillent of lady blue balls. 
Should he try and pleasure me once his finished? Cause I feel like that's what you should do. Not just be concerned that if your done that's it. 
Ladies help 😫😫😫