My fiance of almost 3 years told me tonight that he's miserable and he wants to break it off. I'm 14 weeks pregnant and this is my first child and his first child. We are in the process of building a house and all he kept saying to me was he wants to still be there for me and the baby and that he will make sure I'm taken care of. I'm so sick over this. Blindsided even. I knew things had been rough the past year because he had to move in with his mom because he ended up selling his house faster than he planned and couldn't get the money to build until this year. It's been totally stressful and I had to find a job since I was laid off in October that was paying me less than usual. We both want out of his mom's place but I didn't realize that he would let me pick a house plan and dream of my dream house and take it away from me.

He seemed so excited about the baby at first and now he wants nothing to do with me. We have so many pets together and they are my whole life. I have no where to go. I know the stress isn't good for me and the baby but how am I supposed to handle this?? I'm devastated...to be honest that word doesn't even come close to how I'm feeling. I'm about to lose everything, and I know there is no changing his mind. Who does that??? Who does this to someone they supposedly love. I just can't right now. He said he's not pushing me out and there's no rush but how can I live with him and his mom like this? All I want is for him to love me.