Feeling frustrated!!

Ok so I have PCOS. Up until a few weeks ago, I've been on the pill so I have been oblivious to how my cycles will react to ovulation. Well... This is my first ovulation cycle and my right ovary is hugely swollen and causin great discomfort and pressure and I'm miserable as all hell!! How am I supposed to have sex and get pregnant if I can't have sex because it hurts so damn much because I have a huge and heavy ovary pressing down on everything?!?! Ugh!!!! Why can't being a woman just be easy?!?! I am so frustrated. This is only month one, I know, but I'm feeling so defeated