So I recently started talking to an old friend that I met in Elementary school due to him liking my tbh on Instagram and giving me his number telling me to shoot him a text. I have always seen him more as a brother, but now that we are in our early twenties I think I'm starting to catch feeling for him. But when we were having basic conversation the other day he said that all he was focused on was college and work, I agreed that I have been focusing a lot on college and work, but that I was also open for a relationship that was worth my time. We have been catching up and at the same time planning to hangout. He flirts with me non stop and hasn't said anything about wanting or not wanting a relationship. He offers his help/time when ever I need it and checked on me when I was sick this past week telling me how glad he was that I was okay(I was in the ER). I'm confused if he just didn't want a relationship because there was no one that sparked an interest or that he is looking and doesn't want to be upfront about it? As long as I have known him he's never had a girlfriend. Should I make a move? I mean already asked him to hangout and go for ice cream and he was excited to go. I'm not sure if he still sees me in a sister way or as more? He asks me personal questions as well? I just don't want to make a fool of myself and him saying one thing and his actions showing other things I'm just confused about what I should do? Help please