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well I've been trying, still not really working out. I'm 21 (not "only" 21 or "already" 21) so by that I'm not saying I'm too young or too old for kids. I'm in the Army so I'm kinda unsure if it's the right choice for my non-existent child lol. My husband and I don't really have much of a passion about having kids as we did before. kinda just living life, but once in a while I get in my baby fever mood. lol I'm just ugh anxious I guess to have our own little self made human being that's half of me and half of him. but God has a plan for all of us. lol. can anyone relate?

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Ill through my 2cents in. Ive lived 33.5 years in absolute fear panick and horror at the thought of having a kid. 16 years of being on the pill and never going more than a month off it for reset purposes. Now my hubby and i are opening the gates and im off the pill 6 months now. I know it will take time. Ive had my blood work done all checks out as normally as those vaguely gised test reference points can tell you. (Btw if you look at them and think it thru if you have just the right yeild - like a ten point threshold you are all of the above prepuberty menstrting and menopausal sssooo. Wtf??) anyway im slowly starting to get excited about having a kid. Still scared shitless at times and at times starting to talk about it more. Im not saying "we're trying" oh gosh I can feel the pressure  with that one so we are simply living our lives and figure itll happen when it's supposed to.  Btw i dont dare tell family as my mom is already grandkid crazy she has to settle for GrandDOGS for now :)

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I can tell you this from experience I was prior Army and had my daughter while I was still active duty. And I must say the hardest thing to do is go away on deployment, TDY, or missions. My daughter went to daycare 6 am since I still had to pt in the morning and then she didn't get picked up until about 5 pm when I got off work. I was a single mother so that also played a huge factor in it. Military life for children can be such an amazing experience but you must also realize that being a Soldier is also 24/7.  So it's not always the easiest. Best of luck .

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I'm 23, and go through stages of being meh about babies and stages of OH MY GOD JUST GET A BABY IN ME NOW. It used to be okay because my husband was dead set on waiting for a baby (and mostly still is), but now he's getting baby fever so it's both of us on this crazy coaster lol. We have a rating system for it now- totally fine, then baby fever, then baby rabies, then baby crazy, and the recently added baby Ebola. It can get bad lol.

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Ugh yes I can definitely relate! it honestly sucks specially when you see all your friends with kids it's heart breaking for me I've been trying for almost 2 years and nothing but God does have his reasons 
Good Luck! :)

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