No babyshower fear.... any ideas?

So I can get everything together myself except the location. My apt is too small for a party but I have no close friends with a house or space in general.

So I fear I won't be able to have a shower at all.

Which sucks bc this is our first boy and i have no clothes or diapers or supplies yet and im 31 weeks!

And people aren't going to send stuff just bc. There's a different feel when its a shower, you know?

Any ideas???