Just need someone to talk to

Carly
Hey all recently found that my partner is still producing swimmers (sperm) having had a vasectomy many years ago. We are actively trying and dtd four days around when I think I was fertile (loads of cm) I'm now 9dpo and symptom spotting. I had awful  excruciating cramps around four days ago but nothing other than a bit weepy and anxious. Would love to chat xx