UPDATE/RANT:  So he sends this today. He literally does nothing when he gets home. The most he does is put the LO to bed. He goes and meditates for and hr or so then browses FB, so I'm confused as to what he needs help doing around the house and what load he has to carry b/c the bills are split. The only thing that isn't is the housework. I'm so annoyed and frustrated and hurt that he would have the audacity to say this. Oh and I BARELY ask him to do ANYTHING. Not even take out the trash.