Should I wait till marriage?

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I'm not gonna reveal my age, but there's this guy and he's 21 and I'm not even 18 but he wants to have sex he knows the trouble he can get into and my boyfriend broke up with me so I'm kinda drawn to him because he's giving me attention not cause I like him totally. But he has a car and everything and comes to me & only really cares when I talk about seeing him & touching him and letting him touch me again and I'm pretty Christian as in religious, so is my mom and I wanted to wait till marriage but as i get older I wonder if it really matters? So I have a question for you ladies, Christian and not, should I wait till marriage? Is it that big of a deal? I know I'm being used but it just feels better than knowing I'm not loved by my boyfriend anymore

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It is worth the wait. Especially when it's the right person who cares about you and your beliefs to know that he can wait for you till you are ready and married.

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It's up to you big you want to wait or not. But don't have sex with the 21 year old unless you want him having pedophile on his record

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It is worth the wait!

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You just said yourself he only cares when it comes to touching him or him touching you. What hes doing is wrong and he sounds like he just wants to use you for sex

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Yea it matters! 
To start of I think you answered your own question: no you should not sleep with him. You said you do not like this guy. And really it's normal to like/seek the attention from others, especially when emotionally I'll. But don't let it fool you. Really why sleep with HIM? Seems like he only comes around from time to time.
And it matters a lot. Sex is not just sex. There is intimacy shared with that person and it can be a beautiful thing but it can also hurt you. So be smart.

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I was in this exact same situation. I went ahead and did it. I did not regret the act itself but who it was with. Just figure out if you'll be okay with telling your future kids who you lost your virginitiy to. That helped me for awhile.

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Sounds like he just wants to used you for sex . Yes it's matter wait it will be worth it

Should I wait till marriage?

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