So I was told by my bf today that my insecurities are damaging our relationship but yet he is still on meet me and pof looking for girls and he been hanging out with a girl that has flirted with him in the past.... and they text all day and I am starting to get to the point where I don't feel good enough anymore because he is still looking for girls.... he says because he can't trust me which I have been battling a gambling addiction for years and trying to get it under control now..I banned myself from the casinos around me and trying my best to move forward but, he is stuck in the past and uses the casino past mistakes against me.... I am just don't know what to do anymore, we barely have sex and when we do its not passionate anymore and he always has to watch porn or look for other ppl to be our relationship..... SOMEONE PLEASE HELP