Online Dating and How Every Guy Wants to Hookup

It's normal. Just put in ur profile in caps that u r not looking for hookups and if that's what they want not to bother to write u. Believe me when I tell u, I blocked hundreds of men on these sites because the convos went from hi how r u to omg u r hot, I would definitely do u. Don't lose home. Men think with their D. U will run across some nice guys. Keep going.

ask them what they're looking for on the dating app. usually if they just want sex they'll say something along the lines of I'm not looking for a relationship. you have to be straight up with them and be like hey, just to let you know I'm not looking for just a hookup. you can weed them out like that. 

That's very common and sadly what most men online are picking for. It's hard to find a guy who isn't just looking for sex. I found my fiance online, but I also found a lot of sleazy guys who were only looking for sex and nothing more. I put that on was not looking for a hookup and no dirty pics on my profile and people still ask for it and try to send them anyways bc not many really ready your profile. I learned to only meet with guys in a very public place and to try to get to know them before meeting up. I didn't meet up with many. I ended up with my daughter bc of a one night stand (that was the supposed to be a one night stand) and he doesn't want anything to do with either of us. Just be careful and picky about who you talk to.

Typically the ones like tinder, plenty of fish, occupid are known for being for hook ups so the people who get on there assume you're there for that reason. Ones like match.com, eharmony, etc (basically the ones you pay into) have more serious people on there. I don't know what you're using but if you want something more serious and don't want to get on the bigger ones, just put in your link something simple about not just looking for "something casual"

What app are you using? You can put in your profile or whatever description that you're not into sex on the first date or something like that...