DF has been on antidepressants for about 6 months. He's trialled afew and settled on one that seemed to have the least side effects. His moods have been so much better lately and life is becoming alot more bearable. Only problem is the antidepressants are causing him to not be able to ejaculate. He has no problem getting it up but when he feels he's about to cum he goes soft, almost like his body thinks he came but didn't. He's been back to the doctor to ask about it and the doc said it's a common problem with antidepressants and gave him viagra, which of course didn't do anything because getting hard isn't the problem. We've tried creams and sprays to help make him more sensitive and tried abstaining but that didn't help. It just left us both frustrated. I'm starting to feel pretty inadequate. I know it's the antidepressants causing it but it doesn't stop me feeling like I'm doing something wrong when we're going at it and he goes down inside me...

Any advice how I can help him? Has anyone had this problem before and found a solution? It's starting to really affect us both