Pros and cons

Okay, I am new to this but I'll give you a quick summary of me. I recently got pregnant on accident And had a miscarriage. It broke our hearts . And I put thought into it and decided I wanted to actually plan this pregnancy out and try again. My boyfriend wants me to really think it over and make a pro and con list to make sure I am actually ready for this and not just "emotional" talking. He's on board 100% my decision but wants me to make a list how do you feel about this list and what would u bring to the table for him.