I lost my baby girl at 22 weeks

I understand ur pain. I went into preterm labor at 22.4 and had her at 23 weeks. She passed 2 hours later. Imagine your alone in the middle of an ocean. And u see a big wave coming towards you. You know you cant run from it, you know u cant avoid it, so you just have to let it crash over you. Thats how greif works it comes in waves. Like the ocean, u will always have these waves. Ur big waves may come on holidays or the due date. Hell, mine came in the little girl's clothing area at walmart. But once you stop fighting to get away from that wave, it gets calmer. Succumb to the crying and grief. Its the best therapy. Just know that as the days pass, the waves will get smaller and smaller. They wont go away completely, and those huge waves i told u about come every once in a while, but you will get through them. And u start to notice that they become easier to go through. Holidays will get easier, birthdays, shopping and other events too. Just know that with each wave, big or small, your own little angel will be there looking from above the wave and letting you know that he/she will always be there. Wether storms or sunny days or waves. Hope this helps. Heaven has the sweetest angels.

i understand your loss, i lost one when i was 19 weeks, we were going to find the gender and found out the heart wasn't beating. i had nights without sleeping and days without actually living. went to therapy for 4 months because I started to think it was my fault . 2 years later i had my babygirl she is truly my rainbow and i am such a happy mother. but it still hurts when I remember that my baby could've been here with us, and it's fine to feel that way . just stay strong and never forget your baby because you have an angel now that will always love you.

I am so sorry for your loss. I know from experience no words can help. I lost my twin boys at 22weeks,gave birth to them,and they almost an hour later they went to be with their Heavenly Father. We may never understand why this happened to us,just know that Gods plan is bigger than we can ever imagine. You are not alone sweet girl. You will be reunited with your angel baby one day,and it will be the sweetest of reunions. Cling to God and your family. Prayers sent your way. Also, the book "I will carry you" helped me get through the grieving process, although almost 2 years later I still am grieving. 

I'm so sorry for your loss darling. my daughter came preterm at 23 weeks+1 day, and passed away a month later from an infection in her bowels. there's nothing worse or more painful to go through than the loss of a child. if you ever want to talk I'm here. I've managed to survive 5 months without her, through my boyfriend, family, and faith in God. lean on them to get you through this hard time. whatever you do, don't ever blame yourself, and please don't hesitate to go to counseling. I'm thinking about going myself. and remember it's okay to grieve, and not everyone grieves the same. sending many prayers and comforting thoughts your way. ❤️

It wasn't your fault. That is what I needed to hear most when I lost my little boy. I hope you don't feel at fault because it wasn't. The pain is incredible and I am sorry you are going through this. I am sorry sweetie

I'm so sorry for your lossI hope everything gets better for you and him

I'm so sorry! A mothers pain is underscribable, have faith and be strong.. Wishing you the best. 

I lost my little girl Amara at 22 weeks. Her heart had stopped with no explanations that I knew of.. Turned out they didn't inform me she had a heart defect. At our 20 week scan they mentioned me seeing a specialist to take a better look because they were unable to see all the heart chambers.. They scheduled me 3 weeks out told everything looked okay now to worry she was growing right on track he was perfect.. That was February 15th we just found out we were having a little girl.. February 29th at 2:39 pm I have birth to her.It's a long road I didn't think i could do it i didn't know how life was going to go on.. But it gets better it never goes away you will always miss your baby your little girl but you learn to live you to live for her you learn to better yourself because that's what she would want you to do. You stop living for You and start living for the beautiful daughter you have in your heart.Losing a baby is something that can make it breakn couple. Amara helped us we grew so much stronger so much closer she set is up for happiness for life We can live full of love for one another. 3 months later I found I was pregnant again 3 months later that same day We got our genetic testing results back and found out her y chromosome had just not grown the right way no reason nothing I did he did it just happened. It sadness me that there is no reason for this cause but I'm so blessed that we can grow this baby and he or she can make it he or she will know they had the best big sister. It took me awhile to understand that it's the way it is and I can't change it I cried non-stop I cried randomly anywhere. But I'm okay today and she's okay watching over me and her dad and seeing her little brother or sister come into this world. Your baby will always be with you no matter where you are no matter how sad you are think about her talk about her keep her alive in your thoughts in your conversations when you are ready. I promise it's a good a feeling.

Im so sry sweety i know the feeling 4yr ago i lost my baby girl at 18wk, its completely heart breaking.

I'm soo sorry for your loss:( I'm not going to sit here and say I know how it feels because I don't but I will say I watched my mom go through two miscarriages and it broke my heart:( I pray that you find peace:(