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MIL turmoil 🙄

Andrea • Fri, Jun 24

I DO NOT want my MIL to find out we are pregnant basically until the baby is here

Or hopefully 5 years from now when she comes across a photo on FB or something

I don't know

She is such a headache

She's always putting my SO down

Talking about how her other son is so great and this and that

But whenever she needs ANYTHING my hubbys phone starts ringing

She's always talking to me about the other sons girlfriend and how they just got engaged ( I'm not really that close to them I feel like they do not like me one bit and it's all because of my MIL)

How amazing they are together

How they're going to have the cutest babies ever ( since they're white and blonde and blue eyed- neither of them are attractive 🙄)

I'm over here tan and Puerto Rican with the whitest hubby ever 🙃 but still I think our baby is going to be beautiful lol

I have also had my problems with her in the past and I've tried really hard for my hubbies sake to try and keep my composure

After catching her going through my stuff in his room and then lying straight to my face

( told me that her son said she could find some batteries in there - he and I were hiding them from her because she's always taking things that aren't hers so I know the only way she knew about the batteries was because she went through one of my bags🙄)

Later on I noticed some money missing didn't want to say anything because she's his mom and I don't want to cause troubles but one time I notice about $60 missing I was so pissed I started crying and I had to tell bae about it.. I didn't want to confront her because we were staying at her place and all

Then the food situation

Mind you - her house had rooms rented out to other people so everyone basically respected the "if you didn't buy it you don't use it "

Except her with MY things

Omg

I'd buy things on sale save them to make hubby his dinner when he'd go on break or have them saved in the fridge ready to be heated up

And there'd be so many times that when I went to get something it wasn't there anymore

Then I'd here her say "oh *whatever she'd taken* tasted so good" or "hope you weren't hungry for that, I had it earlier !" Or even say wow you only cook pasta and stuff ? Try something different ? Or don't put pork in the food I'm allergic.. Like really?? It's not my job to feed you ?? Ugh she is so upsetting

And she doesn't offer to replace anything she's used or anything.. And then she's always like "your brother (to my hubby) is always inviting me out to lunch " and this and that- we don't even like you!! We're not going to treat you to stuff if you're a two faced, inconsiderate nasty person !!

We even had to start locking the door and she made a huge fuss about it ?? Then started making us look bad because she'd ask around other people that lived in the house "oh why are ya'll locking your door " UHM maybe because you don't respect people's personal items ??!

Back to the point at hand

How do I let my hubby know I don't want his mom to know we're expecting :(((

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