Any one else having a hard time with finding a decent doctor?

Diane
We measured at 11 -12 weeks But is anyone else having a bad experience with finding a doctor willing to tell you anything about your baby? I'm going into a new doctors office on Monday to find one willing to even talk to me. It's my first pregnancy and so far I'm having a bad experience. I had cramping and bleeding at 6 weeks and the people at the ER were rude! The lady that performed my sonogram ignored me while I was in tears asking if my baby was ok. 
We ended up being fine but it was 6 hours of stress waiting around to hear anything positive. 
Had to fight with my doctors office when they lied about my insurance not approving my sonogram and should of had one three weeks ago. 
Finally go in today to see my baby and the doctor told me nothing. Didn't tell me the heart beat rate , wouldn't tell me where the placenta was located. Didn't even want to show me the baby until I asked and even then he only focused on the baby for a split second. I didn't even get to see the baby move. 
I walked out of that room with a photo but no information other than I'm about 11-12 weeks. I was in tears! So far I feel completely in the dark and having to be my own doctor and make sure I get my appointments when needed. I'm in the process of scheduling my genetic blood work for the baby and the doctors office is fighting me on it saying I need to wait over a month before they will even think about doing blood work. 
I really hope no one else is going through what I am but if you are id love to know I'm not alone. My husband is being supportive but he's not caring the baby and it's starting to feel like this is all my fault and I know I should feel this way but it's hard ! 
On a more positive not any moms out there have an idea of what we're having ?