My husband and I just started trying this month.  I'm so nervous and am preparing myself for a long road ahead.  (My mother had 5 miscarriages and 1 ectopic pregnancy.) The hubs is so sweet and optimistic, but sometimes I just think he doesn't really understand what a gift it to have a baby.  He's certainly got the right mental idea to avoid stress and pressure, but I'd hate to be disappointed when (hopefully if) we have trouble conceiving.