Has your man ever suggested you lose weight?

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No in 18 yrs my man has never said one thing about my weight..and I have gained quite a bit in the last few yrs but my husband is a very sweet man who loves me and will not hurt my feelings over some petty stuff

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If I complained about gaining weight my husband would tell me to stop eating junk and work out. He would never tell me I am fat though. Now that I am pregnant he keeps thinking I should be getting bigger, and gets stressed when I do not gain between appointments or lose a lb or 2.

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My man is great! He knows I'm hard enough on my self. (I don't want to look like my not-so- little sister).
He's very supportive about me working but when it comes to food he's always giving me crap about 'eat more ! you can eat more it's fine! '
 it's really frustrating .  He says he doesn't care what I look like he loves me no matter what. I say the same thing to him. He was a stick when we met & now he's very healthy... Plus a little extra. 😉

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Kind of. 
About 2 years ago, I'd let myself get up to 180 lbs, 35% body fat (I'm 5'7"). I was in a bad place mentally and just didn't care about my weight or health that much. 
My lover still had sex with me, and we were still great friends, and he could tell I wasn't fully myself. He mentioned that I'd been gaining weight, had gotten a belly, and was eating crappily, and he was concerned, because normally I am very healthy. (Note: He is a large guy himself, 6' and 265 lbs but he knows this is a problem and also tries to eat healthier now.)
I saw that I really *had* let myself go, and it just took him pointing it out to make me want to be different. 
So now, I'm 145 lbs with only 26% body fat and I look and feel much better!
I'm glad he told me I was getting heavy...I thinka lot of men would be too scared to tell their partners, but I appreciated that he cared enough to talk about it with me! ❤

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He yells at me to do it if that's what j want to do instead of just talking about it so much. But then says that he doesn't think I need it. He's just sick of me thinking about doing it instead of just taking action lol.

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I wish he'd stop saying it apparently ive gained during the relationship he says he calls it looking after me health wise 
I know I've gained but I'm quite happy with myself, idk what to think.. I've never had too big of a problem with my weight and the way I look,

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I'm 5'4 and have been 125lbs most of my life (got up to 145 before) and my husband actually askes me to put on weight, but in not skinny. He's just used to thicker women

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