My husband's sister cheated on her husband, used her 6yr old to meet her lover, invited him over to her house when her husband was in hospital caring for his father...

And guess what when found out didn't even go out with him as he has no money, her husband forgave her and got back with her. But she often confides in me that the only reason she is staying is security!!!

Anyways she has never done any harm to me and otherwise a nice lady! I have always tried to counsel her and tell her to do the right, but it's her personal life so don't advice on my own unless asked.

Now that's the background. But one day while fighting, I was angry and told my husband you are as selfish and it runs on family,and his sister was a bitch. That shut him up, but every time we argue even over completey some other things, he says oh you are so negative n ill mannered calling people names!!

Doesn't he get it, his sister had no qualms doing it and I just told the truth, that too in a heated moment and he gets angry on me!!!!!