Our son is 5 weeks old and I had my first girls night last night. Went to dinner with two of my best friends and had a few drinks afterwards. My husband went over to one of the friends houses to hang out with her husband and their kids. Thankfully I didn't get drunk or anything because the two places we went after dinner were really lame. Since the friends live really close to us, I decided to stop by on my way home and when I get there my husband is wasted. He sometimes is one of those people who doesn't really realize how intoxicated he really is which is really irritating and scary. I of course am infuriated that he would get drunk like that around our son at all, and even more mad that he thought he would drive home with him like that. I took my son with me and came home. He gets home and it's clear once again that he is not sober at all so I made him sleep on the couch. I'm just not exactly sure how to handle this situation. He is an amazing father otherwise, I have just now lost trust in him and while I don't want to be the nagging wife I want to make it clear that is not going to ever happen again. I am just so glad that I didn't decide to take advantage of what I thought was going to be a free night for me. I of course took care of my son all last night and this morning. What if I would have came home drunk (like I think he was expecting, so he should have known to not do that). I am angry, sad, disappointed, and feel like a bad parent for asking for a night out and when I get it i feel like my baby was put in danger. How would you handle this situation? & also, please no rude comments about my decision to have a night out- every mom is different.