Perineum massage painful? (TMI?)

Sophie Soso • Critical theorist and single mama. Social scientist, too. Contact me at
Not only is sex now painful, but sticking anything more than one finger in there is painful. Anyone else having this? The "burning" you are supposed to get from stretching is immediate upon insertion rather than upon stretching. Why? My vag used to be happy when something was inside! I hope it's just pregnancy and not a yeast thing...but there is no itching, smell or unusual discharge, so I just don't get it. What do you think????