So my wife and I are having our first baby. I am pregnant and so scared. It is a long sad story how this pregnancy happened and isn't something to be discussed. Despite all that. We are super excited. I am between 8-12 weeks depending on if they go by my spotting days or date of conception. My wife wants a boy, and I really don't care as long as it is healthy! We finally got baby names picked out and now trying to decide on themes. My wife thinks we are having twins. We shall see on Wednesday!! Super excited!!!