I need to vent

I am so extremely frustrated at my husband right now. On top of barely helping with his daughter, rarely spending time with her... He leaves for training with the Army in a few days, he isn't working (so no reason to be tired or busy) and keeps telling people he's just going to soak up the last few days spending time with his family. Well I've played with her all day like usual and he's no where to be found. It's bath time and I asked if he wants to come spend time with her before bed. He's in front of the TV and said nope, not feeling like it.

You don't want to diaper her, fine. Don't want to feed her or put her down for a nap, whatever. But you can't sit and play with her or spend time with her and you're about to leave her for 8 weeks? I seriously don't get it.