Okay I'm going to sound awfully selfish probably but I can't help but bitch about this. My husbands birthday is today. We have two kids and one of them is a baby... I stay up all night with him and care for him night and day by myself and work 40 hrs every weekend except in still on maternity leave right now. I arranged for my parents to have the kids tonight because it's been a couple years since I've been able to drink really or get out much and let loose and have fun. He originally told me today after he got done at work at 1pm we'd go up to his parents for a couple hours then go home.. Get drunk together ... Have some fun adult drunk sex and play. Listen to loud music dance together and eat and have the house alone .. So he can celebrate his birthday with me in a funner way and I can actually let loose and drink with him etc. well it's almost 9pm and we are still at his parents house. I basically turned into his designated driver. And I'm kind of pissed about it. If he wanted to get drunk up at his parents and stay here the entire time I could have kept the kids and not planned on having alone adult time with him. I can't get drunk infront of his parents and do what we had planned to do at their house obviously and then we'd also have to sleep here ontop of it and it's over 90 degrees out and they don't have central air and live out in the country. I know it's HIS birthday. But I'm kind of pissed. He can go out and he often does with guy friends etc and he can do stuff like this whenever he wants. I can't and don't and was looking forward to actually having a few drinks for once and letting loose with him and having adult fun etc and now won't be doing that. Call me a whiner or selfish or greedy if you want. Im cooped up regardless 24/7 and am always the responsible one. I was really looking forward to tonight. I'm just wondering if any one else would be as freaking irritated as I am right now. And please don't be really negative. I know it's his day. Hell on my birthday he didn't even get me a card and I didn't have a party of any kind. It was just another day. Ugh.