I went to my OBGYN last Thursday and got some news that I'm just not sure how to take. she was doing my pap. But before she did that she looked and said I have darkened skin around my vagina. She said that's caused by insulin resistance. Which is a starting sign of PCOS. I am not sure how to take that. I have seen my cousin struggle with PCOS for 10 years now and still not conceived. I have 1 baby of my own and 2 step kids. my husband and his ex wife lost their first son and then me and my husband lost or 2nd child before I was 8 weeks pregnant. I would love to have another baby but don't know if I can and my husband is unsure about having another baby. So what would you all do. Help me please