My boyfriend and I have been talking about marriage for sometime now, we met when was 12 and have been together ever since lol. We're 23 now! Even though I wanna get married , I have to make sure that everything is perfect and by that I mean (with us).. No secrets , holding to anger about something that happened months ago ect. I told him that we should at least speak to someone like a pastor or counselor or someone we can confined in just to clear the air & before we finally decide that's something we really wanna do. His mom is a prophet and she loves me, she want us to get married but I just want everything to be perfect.